It's Pat: The Movie 1994
Directed by Adam Bernstein | Starring: Julia Sweeney, Dave Foley, Charles Rocket, Kathy Griffin
Pat Riley, an obnoxious busybody of indeterminable sex, meets and falls in love with Chris, a sensitive, caring person also of indeterminable sex. Their relationship suffers because Pat's a lout, and cannot decide on a direction for their life. Meanwhile, Pat's neighbor Kyle falls further and further into obsession with Pat, fascinated by their indeterminate sexuality.